Wednesday 9 September 2009

partner's cycle.

On a final note, if you are with a partner you always need to be aware and sensitive to your partner's cycle. As a couple you can also add both of your years together. That will determine your cycle together. Suppose you are in cycle 7 and your partner is in cycle 5 then together you would do the following: 5+7=12=3. You are together in cycle 3. It is about having some fun together but you also need to watch that one partner is in his 7th year cycle and the other partner is in her 5th year cycle. One would like to be left alone and the other one wants to be adventurous. The best-case scenario is to have fun together but also leave some space for your partner in his 7th cycle. At the same time the other has to be open - minded and leave her some space because she needs freedom for her 5th year cycle. When combined together, the 7th and 9th year cycle should be carefully watched. If yours and your partner's cycles together bring you to 7, I recommend that you have some time alone or try and do a few things separately. If your years combined bring you to a 9 year cycle, then this will be a year for both of you to let go of some habits or patterns that are not working between the two of you. It can also mean the end of a "9 - year Cycle" together so prepare for a new start later on. Unfortunately, it can also indicate the break up of that relationship, especially when one of the patterns is blocked by certain routines or habits that each does not want to let go of, or either stops investing in each other. Do not get paranoid here! Any couple can stop seeing each other at any year cycle, when either or both do not invest in the other. The flame, or the energy, between them will stop on its own - believe me!

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